When I first started mechanic school, I was the only woman amongst nearly ninety men. It was clear from the first day in class that my presence made a lot of the men uncomfortable and unsure of how to act. This tension came out in the form of teasing, awkward attempts to get my attention, and even rudeness. Although I prepared myself for this gender disparity, it was still frustrating to navigate because my number one priority was to learn - rather than deal with the problematic social environment around me. It didn't take me long to realize that I would get a much better education through work experience rather than at the auto school. That’s when I decided to get a job at a local auto shop.
Unfortunately the sexism in the auto industry wasn’t isolated to school. It was very common for customers to dislike a girl doing “a man's work”. One time a customer even complained to my boss about letting a girl work in the shop. They continued to speak negatively about me as if I wasn't there.I have faced a lot of sexism, which is expected, but that doesn't make it pleasant.
The biggest lessons learned
The biggest lesson I learned as a woman in the industry is: There are some shops that will work out great and others that will not, and that is expected. A lot of times people would blame me for everything that went wrong in the shop. A good shop doesn't do this. In any good workplace, people take responsibility for their own mistakes.
- How to say no
It’s okay to leave if you feel unsafe. It can be scary to say no to a boss, but sometimes it's necessary. If your boss and coworkers make you feel uncomfortable, ask you personal questions, it is okay to say no. It sounds simple, but saying no to the boss was a really hard lesson to learn. It is important to stand up for yourself in uncomfortable situations, regardless who you are speaking to.
- How to identify sexism
There are some shops that will work out great and others that will not, and that is expected.. I once worked in a shop where I got blamed for everything that went wrong even if it wasn't my fault. This is an example of sexism. Sexism can also include being talked down to, judged, or being asked if you're strong enough to complete a task. It is important that you are treated the same as other employees regardless of your gender.
- What to look for in an employer
Not every single shop is safe for women to work. A lot of ex-felons and registered sex offenders enter the auto industry. Do your research before starting a job, and make sure you feel safe in the environment. A good employer should treat everyone equally regardless of their race or gender.
A hopeful future for women in the industry
As a woman in the auto industry I have accepted the fact that I will face a lot more issues than men. Even though it will be a long journey, I will not give up. I am prepared to stand up for myself, and keep learning from every experience. Whenever I feel demotivated, I think of my future shop, and I remember to continue forward. Even though I had many tough experiences in the auto industry, I am not giving up. I plan to open a shop one day, specializing in modding offroad vehicles. I will create a safe environment for both men and women to work, and hope to eliminate a lot of the problems I have faced.